What
an exciting time to be a life coach or executive coach!
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Banks and large finance companies are going under.
• Governments everywhere are scrambling to contain
the economic fallout.
• The global stock markets seem to be in free-fall.
• There are constant comparisons to The Great Depression
of the 1930's.
Now,
more than ever the world needs the perspective that life/executive
coaches can offer!
I know
that some of us who make our living in the coaching arts
might be tempted to buy into the hype. Perhaps some of the
following thoughts have crossed your mind:
• “How will I ever find new clients in this
economy?”
• “I'm going to have to slash my fees because
people are going into 'save' mode and won't pay my usual
rates.”
• “There go my plans to work with the corporate
world! What company is going to pay for an indulgence
like executive coaching?”
• “What am I doing trying to run my own business
in this economic climate? My (spouse, mother, father,
sibling, friend, ex-boss) was right, I'm not going to
make a living as a coach.”
Well,
if you've had a late-night visit from any of these negative
thoughts, I invite you to remember two things: 1. they are
only thoughts; and 2. the negative angle of this situation
is only one possible perspective.
Yes,
the global economy is going through some unprecedented challenges.
But as coaches, we are aware of some fundamental truths
that will help bring us, and our clients through this situation.
In this article, I would like to remind you of two of those
truths.
You
Are Not Your Money
A financial advisor focuses on their client's finances,
while a personal trainer focuses on their client's physical
fitness. But as life/executive coaches, our role is to continually
remind our clients that they are beautifully complex people
with many different facets. They are not defined by their
net worth. Now is the ideal time to remind our clients about
the importance of their health, their relationships, their
emotional state of being, their spiritual connections and
their higher purpose in life. The more we encourage them
to examine the meanings they are assigning to the various
aspects of their life, the more we will be empowering them
to break free of the financial tunnel-vision that is gripping
us today.
Lately
I've run into a number of people who are extremely concerned
about the stock market, yet when I ask them about their
portfolio they admit that they don't actually invest in
the stock market! Or people who are in their 20's and 30's
and are worried about their retirement savings plans. Because
of all of the intense media attention, people have become
more and more identified with their financial picture. Their
relationship to money has taken centre stage in their lives
and is causing tremendous stress. This is where a simple
shift in focus can be the difference between living a stressed-out
life glued to CNN, and a life that is determined to be joyful
and fulfilled regardless of the daily headlines.
Perspective!
Perspective! Perspective!
We have probably all heard that in real estate the three
things that matter most are: location, location and location.
Well, in coaching what matters most is perspective. At present,
the media is full of doom and gloom. Not a very attractive
perspective, is it? I believe that this 'crisis' is a tremendous
opportunity for coaches to step in and offer some fresh
new perspectives to our clients and to our would-be clients.
And I also believe that because there is so much Fear, Uncertainty
and Doubt (aka: FUD) in the air, people will naturally gravitate
to coaches who are offering alternative, empowering perspectives.
If
you want to prove this for yourself, try this. The next
time you are in a social situation where the conversation
turns to fear-based crystal ball gazing about the global
economic future, casually announce: "Really? Recession?
My business has never been better!" I guarantee you
that you will have everyone's attention! And when you tell
them that your business is booming because you help your
clients find new meaning in their lives simply by shifting
their relationship to money... I wouldn't be surprised if
you leave that conversation with a few new clients!
As
I said at the beginning, what an exciting time to be a coach!
Patrick Mathieu is a Certified Master Coach
with the CCF and a Senior Vice President with Healthy, Wealthy
and
Wise Corporation. As a motivational speaker and author,
Patrick has been impacting people’s lives for the
past five years. He was featured on Oprah & Friends,
discussing his book “What’s Your Expiry Date?
Embrace Your Mortality – Live With Vitality”.
Patrick brings a very powerful sense of perspective to his
role as a Master Coach, he brings eleven years of experience
as an IT sales professional to his role as an instructor
of the Sales
Mastery Course, and his years of experience as a professional
keynote speaker to his role as an instructor of the Speech
Mastery Course. Patrick is responsible for overseeing operations
in Southwestern Ontario and Ottawa and is also responsible
for conducting our classes in French nationwide.
http://www.mathieu.com
patrick@mathieu.com
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